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I'm so glad you're here

If you’re feeling stuck in patterns with food, your body, or relationships—know that there’s meaning in the struggle, and you don’t have to face it alone.

Together, we’ll listen more closely to what’s been exiled, hidden, or hurt. Healing isn’t about fixing—it’s about coming home to yourself, with compassion and care.

You’re not too much. You’re not broken. You’re already enough.

Let’s begin.

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Overwhelmed, Tired, Scared

I deeply understand. The path of healing is rarely linear, and your arrival here today already speaks to a profound inner movement toward change

Whether this is your first time seeking support for your eating disorder or you’ve been down this path before, it's completely natural to feel ambivalent about change. Part of you may cling to the familiarity of your eating disorder, even as another part longs for healing. That tension—the push and pull between holding on and letting go—is deeply human. And you don’t have to face it alone.

If past treatment hasn’t resonated with you, you’re not broken or resistant. Perhaps the approaches you've encountered haven’t made enough room for your complexity—for the deeper reasons your eating disorder exists in the first place. You have not failed. The system may not have known how to meet you. What’s needed is something more attuned, more curious, and more compassionate. Together, we can begin to discover what that might be.

My intention is to offer you a space where you feel deeply seen and profoundly safe—maybe for the first time. As a therapist, I draw from both Buddhist and psychoanalytic traditions. This means I approach our work with mindfulness and compassion, as well as a commitment to understanding the unconscious patterns that shape your relationships—with others, with your body, and with yourself.

I see therapy as a shared exploration. Our relationship becomes a kind of mirror—one that helps illuminate your inner world and gives space for the parts of you that have been exiled, silenced, or misunderstood. We’ll pay attention to how you connect, where you disconnect, and what your eating disorder may be expressing on your behalf.

As safety grows, your reliance on the eating disorder may begin to loosen—not through force, but through insight, care, and the slow unfolding of trust. This is how transformation happens. Not all at once, but breath by breath, moment by moment. This is the path of recovery.

Finding the right therapist is a really important step in recovery

We might be a good fit if you struggle with any of the following:

  • Anorexia

  • Bulimia

  • Binge Eating

  • Complex Trauma

  • Attachment Issues

  • Dissociative Behaviors

  • Fear of Abandonment

  • Self Harm Behaviors

  • Fear of Food

  • Impulsive Behaviors

  • Compulsive Exercise

  • Emotional Eating 

  • Emotional Instability

  • Relationship Issues

  • Body Image Issues

  • Low Self Esteem

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A Little About Me

Supporting others in their recovery from eating disorders is not just my profession—it’s my life’s calling. This work is deeply personal to me, as well as profoundly meaningful on a professional level.

I’m a licensed psychotherapist based in Washington, D.C., where I offer a space for deep, compassionate inquiry into the mind, body, and self.

My work is grounded in both psychoanalytic and Buddhist-informed traditions, and supported by my background as a yoga teacher. This integrative lens allows me to explore the full range of human experience with clients—emotionally, somatically, and relationally. I pay close attention to the interplay between the mind and body, and how past experiences continue to shape the present moment.

I understand that for many, the body has not always felt like a safe place. Whether due to trauma, disordered eating, or self-harming behaviors, the body may feel more like a battleground than a home. My work is about helping people return to themselves with more steadiness, curiosity, and compassion. Together, we cultivate a sense of safety—internally and interpersonally—while developing concrete tools like grounding, breathwork, and emotional regulation to support that process.

Eating Disorder Treatment

Recovery is not simply about symptom reduction—though we will certainly address behaviors like restriction, bingeing, purging, compulsive exercise, and body preoccupation. It's also about understanding why the eating disorder took root in the first place: what it has protected you from, expressed on your behalf, or helped you survive.

Often, disordered eating is intertwined with deeper feelings of unworthiness, isolation, and disconnection from one’s own emotional life. I work relationally and compassionately to help clients uncover the emotional and developmental needs underlying their symptoms, and to begin meeting those needs in new, sustainable ways. This is not a quick fix—but a process of returning to wholeness.

Trauma Treatment

Because eating disorders are so often woven with histories of trauma, I’ve expanded my work to focus more broadly on the lasting impact of trauma on the nervous system, relationships, and sense of self.

We might be a good fit if your trauma has led to instability in relationships, emotional numbing, mood swings, or self-harm. My approach is attachment-focused and body-aware, drawing from dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), trauma-sensitive yoga, somatic experiencing, and—soon—EMDR. I aim to offer a holding environment where trauma can be met with gentleness, curiosity, and care.

Group Therapy

Group therapy holds a special place in my heart. While individual therapy offers one lens, group invites something richer: a live, relational field in which long-standing patterns can be seen and felt in real time.

Many of our earliest relational templates were shaped in childhood, often in environments where needs were unmet or misattuned. In group, we have the rare opportunity to revisit those blueprints and experience new kinds of connection. This attachment repair group is ideal for those who are ready to explore themselves more deeply through relationship—with others and with the parts of self that come alive in group dynamics.

Yoga Integration

As both a therapist and yoga teacher, I hold deep respect for the intelligence of the body. For clients living with eating disorders, trauma, anxiety, or depression, the body can often feel foreign, overwhelming, or even dangerous.

Through somatic practices and yoga-informed therapy, we gently reintroduce the body as an ally in healing. This means moving beyond cognition—beyond talking about change—and into a direct, embodied experience of presence, calm, and integration. For many of my clients, this body-level work is essential to their healing process.

Services

Together, let's decide on a treatment modality that works best for you

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Individual Therapy

50 minute one on one sessions to explore your past and build skills for the here and now

Group Discussion

Group Therapy

Enhance your treatment with authentic, and honest connection. Here, we will make space for sharing, relating, and understanding one another to better understand ourselves.

Yoga at Home

Trauma Sensitive Yoga

Nourish your mind and body through the healing practice of yoga. Regain a sense of body awareness and body acceptance.

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Family Therapy

Everyone belongs here. Together, we work with the relational dynamics that interfere with your growth and healing. Whether its your parent, or a partner, we'll build new healthier more effective ways of relating to one another.

Current Groups

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Beyond ED: a Recovery Focused Process Group

Fridays 10am

This is a group for individuals hoping to find support in their eating disorder recovery journey. Together, we will discuss common challenges in recovery and navigating life beyond the eating disorder. The group is process oriented where we will make space for sharing, relating, and understanding one another to better understand ourselves. If you're looking to enhance your treatment with authentic, and honest connection, maybe group is right for you! This group requires a screening, so please reach out! Participants must be 18+ and have their own individual therapist.

Attachment Repair Group

Fridays 1pm

Group can be a powerful tool for making contact with our early attachment wounds. For most of us, we developed our relational blueprint in early childhood -- a set of skills and guidelines for how we exist in relationship to others. This is where group comes in. This attachment repair group offers a unique opportunity to access dynamics from our original family of origin in real time. It's a place for folks who are interested in knowing themselves more intimately, and understanding more about how they relate to others.

LGPC Supervision Group

Fridays 12noon

This group allows participants to earn group hours towards their professional license. It's a wonderful place to connect with other professionals, and learn about various treatment settings and interventions. If you're interested in collaborating on clinical issues and enhancing your therapeutic skill set, this group is for you.

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Frequently Asked Questions

The Answers You Need

Do you accept insurance?

I am what you call an out of network provider and do not accept insurance at this time. However, I provide the documentation you need should you wish to seek reimbursement through your insurance.

What is your therapy style?

While I draw from a range of therapeutic models, my approach is fundamentally psychodynamic, trauma-informed, interpersonal, and attachment-based. At the heart of our work is the therapeutic relationship—a space where long-standing patterns can be explored with curiosity and compassion. Depending on your unique needs, I also integrate tools from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and mindfuness practices to support emotional regulation, insight, and greater self-understanding.While I draw from a range of therapeutic models, my approach is fundamentally psychodynamic, trauma-informed, interpersonal, and attachment-based. At the heart of our work is the therapeutic relationship—a space where long-standing patterns can be explored with curiosity and compassion. Depending on your unique needs, I also integrate tools from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to support emotional regulation, insight, and greater self-understanding.

What groups do you offer?

Currently, I offer an eating disorder recovery group which meets at 10 on Fridays, as well as an attachment repair group that meets at 1pm on Fridays.

I also offer an LGPC supervision group at noon on Fridays. 

If you are interested in any of these groups, please don't hesitate to give me a call. 

Who Do You Treat?

I treat adolescents, adults and families. Eating disorders effect everyone involved.

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Office Location - Dupont Circle

Whole Healing Psychotherapy, PLLC

1350 Connecticut Avenue
Suite 602
Washington, D.C 22201

Get in Touch

Think we might be a good fit? Don't hesitate to reach out today for a free 15 minute phone consultation. 

202-540-0278

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